This review is based on two products, because you will likely want to buy the WAS (Weight Attachment System) with the TOM v2 (The Other Man Version 2). Here are the pics, and then we’ll get to the usage:

                   

                               

Essentially, the TOM is a base platform upon which you can apply up to three suction cup dildos. For the demonstration in my video and pictures, I used a Vixen Creations Maverick suction cup dong. It has three different angles where you can place your suction cup, and it has a rubberized base that will provide anti-slip while using it on a hard surface.

The reason I emphasize getting the WAS, is because you might want to use this apparatus on the bed. The added weight from that attachment will allow you to utilize any platform in your house without worrying about it slipping, shifting, or falling off.

The surface of the TOM v2 is very very smooth, and the suction cup had no problem attaching to the base. You’ll see from the video that I added quite an amount of weight, and I was able to pull the whole thing up by the dong. That is an incredible piece of engineering. The TOM V2 is also substantially solid. It is not made of cheap plastic -- it was designed specifically for sexual activity. It can take a beating.

The uses are only limited by your imagination. You can see from one of the photos that Tender Beaver (the company who makes TOM v2) offers some suggested positions for use. Use it solo, with a couple, attach multiple dongs, and just have fun. It really takes the nonsense out of trying to find the right position for your suction dong. No more weird squatting on the floor or trying to balance on the bed while you hump the wall. This will solve those problems. My only regret is that I didn’t make this product. I’d be rich by now.

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TOM v2 and WAS -- Why You Need This in Your Bedroom Set

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Hello Readers,

I was going to start this tomorrow, but I had some free time today. So, I want to give you my perspective on a great starter toy from OhMiBod, the LoveLife Explore.

If you are very new to anal play, or if this is your first time trying it, I really suggest starting small. Why small? For a few reasons:

1.  Your body is not used to things getting placed inside there. You have to train your muscles to accept the objects you are using.

2.  If it's painful, you'll stop, probably never try it again, and then you'll miss out on a whole new world of stimulation and excitement.

So again, start small, and take it slowly.

Part of OhMiBod’s rear gear product line, the LoveLife Explore is truly impressive for the person or couple beginning anal exploration. All of OhMiBod’s products come packaged extremely discreetly, so no one will ever know what you purchased. The packaging itself is premium, and the unboxing experience is beautiful. There are very few companies who put quality time into their presentation, and I can probably list them on one hand. OhMiBod is one of the few. It's a luxury presentation without the hefty price tag.

Inside, you will find a smaller-sized, unintimidating plug with a whimsical heart-shaped pull tab. When I say it’s for beginners, I mean it. If you are someone who wants it big, this it not your game. This is the gateway for those people who want to further their sensations and orgasm intensity. So, on to that…

It is reasonable to assume that many women can orgasm from either clitoral or g-spot (or a combo) stimulation. So, for women, the LoveLife Explore will up the intensity. I recommend using a water-based lube to insert the toy, so you don't destroy the silicone. I assure you, it will stay in place even during intercourse. If you are new to this, relax, breathe, and let your muscles agree to what is placed there.Once you are fully relaxed, enjoy your time (alone or together) as usual. It will not be painful, just very intense.

Take your time with this toy, and enjoy it. It’s designed to stimulate different nerves that you may not have experienced in the past. It’s OK to feel awkward at first, and that’s why I’m telling you to breathe and relax. Eventually, your body will accept it, and you’ll be on your way to incredible orgams with a willingness to go further in the future.

So, you might have noticed that I focused on women using this product. If you didn't catch that, well, now you know. I state that, because this toy is not the most ideal toy for stimulating the male prostate. It will add a little bit of fullness for you, but for the guys, I would err on the side of the LoveLife Dare from the same company. It has a much better pressure point that will hit the prostate, yet it still remains small enough not to be intimidating. More on the LoveLife Dare later.

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Regards,

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LoveLife Explore -- A Gentle Intro to Anal Stimulation

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Dear Readers,

Coming next week, I will start reviewing the products that I consider to be lower cost sex toys. This does not mean they are sub-standard quality. They will just cost less than some of the more luxurious products, while delivering a similar experience to them.

Keep in mind that sex toys can be hit or miss when you don't pay a lot for them. (And, sometimes they can be nightmares when they are really expensive.) I've had my share of poor quality products in my bedroom, and I've thrown them out. You will not find any of those listed here.

Also, realize that some of the lower cost toys do come from superior brand names like, OhMiBod, Aneros, PicoBong, and even Lelo has some. However, a lot of them will be from brands you may not know or recognize. Regardless, it will be a fun and educational experience for all of us, and I encourage you to consider using them in the future to enhance your relationship with your partner in the bedroom.

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Low Cost Toys -- High Quality for Minimal Cash

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The Fifi is an much-needed modern twist on an old design. Likely, you are looking at this product and wondering how to use it or what it is. First, it’s a standard masturbation toy for men, much like the Fleshlight or Pocket Pussy lines. Second, how to use it varies quite a bit from those lines, because of the set-up involved. That said, though the set-up is a little longer than a traditional masturbator, the clean-up time is almost nill. Also, due to its design and the REASON it is designed that way, this toy will not feel like a traditional masturbator or vagina. It has its own sensations, and they are very worth your while. And frankly, I’ve never felt a synthetic skin that felt like real skin. Don’t go chasing that dream; you’ll always be disappointed. Accept these kind of toys for what they are...masturbators.

So what exactly is the Fifi? At it’s basic form, and you can see from my picture of it in the unfurled state, it is a thick padded material that wraps up into a tight cylinder and closes with a velcro strip. You might be thinking, “Well can’t I just do that with a hand towel, sock, or something else?” The quick answer is yes. However, the Fifi is designed for this purpose, and it will offer you so much more “squeeze” on its own that you will ever get from a towel. But that’s not the only thing that makes the Fifi better. It also has disposable latex sleeves.

The basic premise of the Fifi is to offer you a solid masturbation experience with minimal to no clean up. They’ve taken the concept of the towel you used as a teenager and the convenience of a condom, and then they turned them into a magnificent final product. The disposable sleeves are much like oversized condoms. They will look very familiar when you open them up, but no, they are not designed to fit snuggly around your member. The set-up is to unravel the Fifi, place the sleeve to one side with a the opening sticking out, roll the sleeve up tight, pull the sleeve opening around the Fifi for a tight fit, fill with lube, and masturbate with it. Does it seem like a lot of steps? Maybe. But, when you actually use it, you’ll find that it’s very easy to set up. I used seven pumps of Fifi lube, and the end result was fantastic. The best part -- when you’re done, you just pull out, open the Fifi, and throw away the sleeve. Unlike other toys, you don’t have to clean this one, and you don’t have to worry about bacteria growth or using the wrong kind of lube.

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If you're still unsure what this is or how to use it, here's a YouTube tutorial :D

What Exactly Is the FiFi? Let's find out...

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I was on the fence for a long time about buying glass toys, especially ones that are designed to go up the rear. Like always, I didn’t buy anything without doing extensive research. The particular kind of glass that Pipedream Products uses is borosilicate glass. Below is the model I decided to buy, the Icicles No. 46 Black:

This is the same type of glass that makes up those durable Pyrex dishes you might use. Why is borosilicate glass important? It is completely non-porous, easy to clean, very durable, and it has an extremely low coefficient of thermal expansion. That last one is important for the more daring community. If you’ve ever poured boiling water into an ice cold glass, or vice versa, you may have experienced glass shattering. Borosilicate glass does not do that very easily. So, if you’re into temperature play (like leaving this plug in the freezer for a bit before putting it inside you), then this is the type of glass you want.

The packaging it comes in is fairly basic, but it’s not “cheap.” The box has a nice magnet enclosure that gives it a classy feel. Regardless, I was more concerned about the build quality and mechanics of the device than its packaging. So, I opened it up, and I was pleasantly surprised. The plug was incredibly smooth, very hard, and extremely opaque. It was a little smaller than what I expected, but still had a very nice build quality and design.

Using the plug was extremely easy. Although I’m an advanced prostate massager, I’ll say with confidence that this would be a nice toy for a beginner or a graduating step for the novice. Since it’s glass, you can use any type of lubrication that you want. It will not degrade the product. Once lubricated, insertion is easy thanks to the nice pull-ring and the tapered bulbs. If you are a rookie at this, you may need to breathe and relax. Lay on your side, and slowly insert the plug so that the arc is facing toward your stomach. That will ensure you are on the right track to hit your prostate.

The sensations this plug offers are moderate. Though it is not my go-to prostate massager, it is very comfortable to wear for long times. The only thing I don’t like about it is the girth. I really wish it was wider to offer a fuller sensation. The tip of the plug does hit the prostate quite nicely. It is good for kegel pulsing as well as manual manipulation. Depending on your level of arousal, you could get off really easily with this plug.

My final thoughts: At about $15.00 for this plug (at the time of my purchase), you really can’t go wrong. It would be a nice addition to your collection, and it will certainly help you graduate to bigger and better toys. It’s a high-quality, luxurious-looking product for an extremely reasonable price. If the company wanted to charge more, they likely could.

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Icicles -- Hot and Cold ;)

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Nitin Vachhani

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