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Thursday, August 11, 2016

Just when I thought the industry couldn’t come out with something new, PicoBong comes out with the Transformer. This is the most unique sex toy I have seen in quite some time, and the possibilities are nearly endless.

What I like about this brand is that it just seems fun. It’s not designed to be classy, sexual, cheap, etc. It feels like it has the personality suited for a couple who can laugh while they are making love. Don’t get me wrong. This toy can definitely be used for long romantic nights, secret thrills, etc. For us, however, it screams, “Let’s get frisky together!” Heck, even the packaging has a beach-surfer-style pop to it.

At its core, the Transformer is a magnificent brainchild of the bullet vibrating system and that stem from a pose-able reading lamp. It’s like they took that bending part of the reading lamp, put two bullet vibes on it, synced them up with some awesome and playful software, and then made it look beautiful.

The settings on the vibe has a little bit of a learning curve, and there are some things you should know up front, so you don’t get stuck trying to fix it in the middle of a session. For one, read the manual. Know how to turn it on and off (it comes locked, and you have to press and hold the + and - buttons for three seconds to unlock it), know how to increase and decrease intensity, and know how to change the vibration patterns. Also, if you are going to insert the toy, realize that one of the ends has the control modular. If you want to switch settings, don’t insert that end -- lesson learned ;)

Other than that, this vibrator has endless possibilities -- from body massage, clitoral, vaginal, penile, frenulum, anal, prostate, nipple, and anywhere massage, you will be filled with delight. For the ladies into something more daring, you can put one end in your vagina and one in your anus with the shifting pattern. This pattern vibrates one bullet at full strength, and when it’s coming down in strength, the other one picks up speed. This goes back and forth, and I can only imagine what it would feel like. I’m a guy, so no luck for me there.

Final thoughts: This is an amazing and innovative invention that I wish I would have designed. The geniuses at PicoBong are really onto something, and I’m happy they sent me this one. There is really nothing else like it. Enjoy!

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PicoBong Transformer -- A Super Fun Way to Excite Your Senses

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Wednesday, August 10, 2016

The SVAKOM Echo is likely the most powerful vibrator in the smallest size I have ever encountered. I’ve been in the sex toy industry since 2001, and this is one awesome piece of engineering. When I got it in the mail, I was shocked to see just how small it was. When my Wife saw it, she said, “It’s cute. It doesn’t look like a vibrator at all.” Well, she’s right. It’s just a simple curved piece of sexual energy that is unassuming and inconspicuous. It’s beautiful to look at and beautiful to behold.

You can see from my pictures the comparison size next to an American dollar bill. It really is tiny. But, it is perfectly curved for the woman’s vulva, and the vibrations are not only intense, they are equally distributed throughout the device. It’s like a smooth warm pebble that beckons to be rubbed.

When it’s on the highest setting, it’s incredibly intense (on behalf of my Wife). There are, I think, five different patterns you can go through, but we’re a fan of the consistent vibration. You may like something different, and that’s why SVAKOM put them there.

Frankly, SVAKOM came out of nowhere in the sex toy industry. For years, it was Adam and Eve, Doc Johnson, and other big names. Then Lelo came out with their high luxury items. Let me just say, SVAKOM has them all beat. Don’t believe me? Buy something from Lelo, and then buy SVAKOM. Whatever their engineers are up to, I want to have the next product. I am so happy I found them online. They allowed me to have this product at a discount to give you a review, and if they didn’t, I probably would have paid double for this vibe. My wife is satisfied, I’m satisfied, and you will be satisfied.

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Oh my God! This is the most powerful clitoral vibrator I have ever encountered.

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Saturday, August 6, 2016

Hey Faithful Readers,

Thank you for coming back on a regular basis. I have a lot of new products coming from some high quality and luxury companies. Over the next two or three weeks, I will have quite a few posts regarding sex toy reviews. Some of these toys are for men, some for women, and some for couples. Either way, I'm excited to have the chance to share these reviews with you!

Also, I think I'm going to start a budget toy section for those who do not want to spend too much for their pleasure.

In the meantime, if there is something that you want me to discuss on the public forum, please contact me directly, and I'll answer you as soon as possible.

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Thursday, August 4, 2016

Today, I want to talk a little bit about pegging. If you're not sure what that is, well, it's having your female partner wear a strapon and have sex with you...in the ass ;) So, a lot of guys are either turned off by this naturally (and that's OK), or they are curious about it, but they think they're going to be gay if they do it. I don't know how many decades have to pass before people start adopting a sex-positive attitude, but getting pegged does not make you gay. Why this is still an issue is beyond me, but maybe I've lived in California too long. Anyway, to date, the best manufacturer of realistic cocks is Vixen Creations. And, the best realistic cock for me to date is pictured below, the Goodfella:

With pegging, you really need to get comfortable with your partner. If she's not willing to do it, then it's just a no-go until she comes around. That's OK. Everyone has their line, and you need to respect that line. If you are, however, lucky enough to have a partner who will peg you, you're in for a unique, but awesome experience. You will also find yourself closer, more intimate, and more vulnerable with your partner. Take it slow, and I suggest you read a lot of information about pegging before you dive into it. It's not like typical prostate massage at all. And you are not in control of the movement. That said, communication is key. And, if it starts to hurt, stop. No need to go to the hospital -- just stop and read up on it more. Everyone can succeed at this. Why would you want to? Because it's loads of fun. So, onto the product itself:

I already own the Johnny model, but I found it to be quite big. Then, I recently did another search and came across the Goodfella. It’s the perfect size for the beginner and the novice. It you’re more experienced with pegging, then you might want something bigger. For most men, this one will be perfect.

The first thing you will notice about the Goodfella is how real it looks and feels. It is not awkward in shape, size, or color. And the texture is extremely close to real skin. It’s not perfect, but it’s pretty darn close. The second thing you’ll notice is the inner texture. The shaft of the penis is designed to be soft on the outside and firm on the inside. This really does make it feel like a real cock.

The design on this one, as compared to other models, is how nice it is to use with a harness. The base is designed so you can easily bend it up and then into the ring harness of the strap, thus making it super easy to install and remove. And if you’re someone who likes variation during the same session, you can buy different types of these cocks with the same easy-install harness.

The other nice part of the design is the way the company created the balls. In most cases, the balls are part of the base, and this makes it really uncomfortable for the person wearing the cock. Here, the balls extend outside of the base. The end result is both more comfortable and more realistic-looking.

I can’t speak highly enough about this brand. All of the top tier toy companies carry them, and there are reasons why you won’t get freebies or discounts. Think of these cocks as Apple products. Everyone who is into them will pay top dollar for them, and they don’t care. This cock is definitely worth every penny.

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Pegging -- What is it, and is it for you? A Review of Vixen Creations and the Goodfella

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So, this one was (is) more for me. For decades, women have been getting the lion's share of orgasms from sex toys, and well, it's just not fair. Thankfully, Njoy created the Fun Wand. It's a spin-off from the Pure Wand (which is fun on its own), but it's designed heavily for prostate milking. Here's my review of this beauty:

Njoy products are top shelf works of art that double as sex toys. I am lucky enough to own four of their pieces, and soon, I will purchase more. Each one has its own unique set of characteristics and personality. Let me tell you what you're going to get with the Fun Wand.

Like all quality products, Njoy comes in a discreet and tasteful white box. Underneath that cardboard layer is a beautifully crafted case made in all black. When you open it up, you will be greeted with a pink velvet bedding upon which lies an elegant, mirror-finish, work of sexual art. When I saw it, I was in awe, and I was turned on.

The wand is made of surgical grade stainless steel (same as the rest of their line), so it's a bit frigid at first. I suggest running it under hot water for a few seconds, or put in your warm hands to get it ready. Any lubricant will work on it, and it slides in soooo easily. For the guys, if you are looking for a an easy way to reach your prostate, this is the means by which to do it. There are so many toys out there that claim to do what this does, but none can match it. It's not hands-free; you'll need to guide it. But, you get to control the pressure, the depth, the angle, the bulb size you want on your prostate, and milk it to your hearts content. You will leak; I guarantee it. I won't get graphic here, but you are in for a royal treat.

A word of advice for those willing to go the extra mile. It's one thing to just insert the wand and press or lightly stroke on your prostate. If, however, you are a little more daring and very engorged, I suggest pumping the wand quickly into your prostate to milk it harder. The sensations are incredible. You'll need to use lots of lube, and make sure you clean yourself out before you start going this road. Nothing ruins the mood more than a messy session.

If you are concerned about the cost of this Wand, that's reasonable. Yes, you can go out and find imitations. However, I have years of prostate milking/massaging experience, and I have never found a product that compares to this. The Aneros line is close, but it is cut out for an entirely different experience. Whether you want a few minutes of pleasure or hours of bliss, this Wand needs to be part of your bedroom collection.

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The Njoy Fun Wand -- Makes Prostates Happy :)

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So, this is one of those items that's great for women, men, and couples. The Njoy Pure Wand is a simple, time-tested design that will unlock the secrets of G-spot and P-spot orgasms for so many people. Here's my review:

The Pure Wand comes discreetly packaged, so no one will know it’s your toy. You’ll soon realize that you could display it in your living room, and no one would be the wiser as to what it is -- it looks like a work of abstract art. The first thing you will notice is a clean, white, rectangular box with one word, “Njoy.” Remove the cover, and underneath is an elegant black case ready for you to unlock her secrets. Inside, you will find an elegant, mirror-finished, curved wand that beckons you to use it. It lies on a bed of pink velvet; an appropriate resting place for something so beautiful.

Having used Njoy’s prostate-focused Fun Wand and Pure Plug before now, I instructed my partner to warm the wand up with hot water for about 30 seconds. The medical grade steel heats up quickly and retains that heat. There are two bulbous heads, one on either end. For her, we started with the smaller of the two. During foreplay, she gently inserted the perfectly curved wand inside her, and quickly found her G-spot. If you are unsure where your G-spot is, there is a treasure chest of instructional literature and video on the Internet.

Once seated properly on her G-spot, she brought out her clitroal vibrator as well -- this was intended to amp up the pleasure. I recommend something from Lelo line. The vibrations are extremely powerful; they have the strongest motors you can find on the market. My partner did not need to move the Pure Wand much at all. It was more like applying and releasing pressure on her G-spot while holding the vibrator on her clit. Within five minutes, she started having an intense orgasm -- and within a few more minutes, it turned into a full-body continuous orgasm. I’ve never seen her like this, and all I want to do is see it again.

The Pure Wand, because of its design, is easy insert and easy to clean. It really is a work of art, and it brought her orgasms like I’ve never seen. You could spend hundreds of dollars on other toys, fakes, and dreams to try and reach the blissful feelings you will get out of this one-time investment. Purchase it now, and end your search for the Unicorn. The Njoy Pure Wand is that Unicorn. It will never break. It never needs to be recharged. It will always stay clean, and you will have it for the rest of your life.

OK, if you haven't already checked out the links, it's pricey...but it's soooo worth it.

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The Njoy Pure Wand Review -- Unlock Your Pleasure Chest

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In the world of prostate massage and milking, Njoy is on par with Aneros. The difference between the two companies is that Njoy makes their products of medical grade stainless steel instead of plastic and/or silicone (although Aneros does have one steel model). The sensations are completely different than anything you will ever use to pleasure yourself.

I had originally purchased the large Pure Plug, the Pure Wand, and the Fun Wand. However, I’m a guy, and I really wanted something with a little more kick when it came to hands-free prostate milking. Enter the Pfun Plug (pun intended).

Like all Njoy products, the Pfun Plug came packaged in a discreet mailing box. The case itself is an elegant black box that opens at a hinge point. Inside is a bed of dark pink velvet and a gorgeous mirror-finished prostate plug. Completely waterproof, smooth, and sleek...the way it came packaged made me feel like it was made just for me.

Since the Pfun Plug is stainless steel, you can use any kind of lubrication you want. It’s also nice to use for temperature play (either warming it up or cooling it down before use). Insertion was incredible easy, and the nub on the tip hit my prostate at just the right spot.

My favorite position when using the Pfun is to lie on my side and squeeze my kegel muscles. If you try this method, your body will soon start to take over automatically, and the sensations are incredible. I really wish there was a word in English to truly describe the feeling. Since there isn’t, you’ll just have to try it for yourself ;) The Pfun Plug is on par with the same intense orgasms I’ve experienced from the Fun Wand and the Aneros Vise and Aneros Progasm. The benefit to this toy over the Aneros line is the stainless steel. If just feels classy.

As a side note, the Pfun Plug would be OK for beginners, but it is really designed for the intermediate or expert user. My final thoughts: I wish I had known about this plug years ago. It would have saved me a lot of time searching around for the perfect sensations. It’s another must-have for your collection. And, if properly cared for, it will last the rest of your life.

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Enjoy the Njoy Line!

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My third toy (and hopefully not my last) from the Aneros line is the Aneros Vice. The Vice is the way to go if you want the best of both worlds. It's not without its design flaws, but we'll get to that. Still, this is a five star prostate massager that offers extreme sensations. It's a bit pricey, but you'll be begging for it daily.

On the positive side, the texture is an extremely smooth and slightly flexible silicone. The inside of the shaft is hollow for a reason because that is where you put the vibrating bullet. The feel is a very full feeling when it is first inserted. Don't make this your first toy if you are not comfortable with anal penetration. I'd start with something like the Aneros Syn first.

For those with a bit more experience, the toy lubricates nicely, but it is a bit tricky to get it inserted. Since the device is hollow, it relies on your sphincter muscles to hold the vibrator (the bullet) in place. On your back, this is not much of an issue. However, if you are going to do pelvic thrusts on your knees, or if you are going to mount a partner, the bullet has a tendency to slip out.

The piece sits nicely on the prostate, but I prefer the feel of the Aneros Progasm to this. It's a personal preference, and you may like something different. I just want you to be aware that these toys are expensive and you should really do your research before dropping a lot of money on one.

The bullet itself is made of well-crafted stainless steel. There is nothing cheap about this product at all. From the unboxing to the cleaning up, it is a premier product worthy of years of use. It takes one AAA battery, but wow, does that motor have some kick. If I recall correctly, there are 9 settings. They go from straight vibrations to weak/strong waves to quick pulses. After a set of three, it jumps up the same set but with more power.

At the straight vibration on the highest setting, you won't know what hit you. It's amazing. I recommend easing into that setting though... for two reasons:

1. Getting there too fast misses the whole point of the sexual experience.

2. Getting there too fast and staying there will ultimately cause you to desensitise to the vibrations. This will hinder your orgasm, and it will be far less powerful.

My advice:

Buy the device if you are not a beginner. Clean it before and after every use (both parts). Enjoy all the settings before you get to the big O. When you are about to cum, press down on it so it hits your prostate hard. This will cause an intense orgasm worthy of the high price.The Vice is the way to go if you want the best of both worlds. It's not without its design flaws, but we'll get to that.

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The Aneros Vice -- Bringing Together the Best of Both Worlds

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In addition to the Keri, SVAKOM offered me a chance to review their Tyler vibrating cock ring. If you are into couples toys, this is the one for you.

For a long time, I’ve been looking for a couples toy that excelled in what it was supposed to do. There is a myriad of vibrating c-rings out there that promise the world and don’t deliver. My Wife and I tried everything from common condom-brand c-rings (Durex, Trojan, etc.) as well as some smaller companies’ products. So, like I always do, I hit up the Interwebs and started searching and reviewing products. And, that’s when I came across SVAKOM. SVAKOM suggested that I try out the Tyler cock ring, because it has extremely strong vibrations with five intensities and five variations.

My Wife and I decided to give the Tyler a fair shot, but my expectations (based on experience) were low. Let me say, the Tyler does not disappoint. From the unboxing experience to the usage, I was extremely impressed. The vibration power alone is baffling (no idea how they packed that much power into something so small).

You can see from the pictures that the Tyler comes in an opaque wrapping, so no one knows it’s your toy. When you do open it up, like all SVAKOM products, you’ll notice the luxury packaging and presentation. The size of the Tyler is compact, sleek, and elegant. It offers a warm welcome and none of the typical “sex toy” negative stereotypes you may have come to expect from cheaper brands.

So, I assume you’re looking at the Tyler and wondering, “Why is the price so high for a couples cock ring?” Granted, it’s more expensive than what you’ll find elsewhere, but you’re paying for power here, and I mean a lot of power. I’m not sure what engineering magic SVACOM used, but they managed to pack the power of a full-sized vibrator into a tiny one inch circle. My analogy: If your traditional vibrating cock ring is a Honda Civic, the Tyler is a Bugatti with a 1,200 HP engine.

The silicone ring that is used to hold the toy in place is extremely comfortable. At first, I didn’t think it would fit, but the silicone has a nice stretch to it. Just be sure to use some lube. The vibrations are controlled from a small subdued button on the side of the vibrator. Turning it on and off is a snap, and running through the different settings is extremely intuitive. It has the same process as SVAKOM’s Keri vibrator (another miracle toy...hint hint).

The benefit of using a toy like the Tyler is the novelty and variation you can have in bed. Traditional sex is a lot of thrusting. However, with the Tyler, you can incorporate more grinding, thus stimulating your partner’s G-spot with your penis while the Tyler does all the work to her clit. It’s waterproof, too, thanks to the pinhole charger. The charging port closes up fully once the charger is removed.

My final thoughts: The older I get, the more I realize that I want to spend my money on things that bring me happiness and pleasure. Sex by itself is life’s gift to us all, but sex with the inclusion of high quality toys is mindblowing for all parties involved. I’m tired of buying cheap toys from different vendors in search of something awesome. There are very few companies who can make products that really perform, and I can count them on one hand. SVACOM is one of them. Oh, and their customer service is amazing :)

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The SVAKOM Tyler -- A Couple's Dream

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So, as stated in my original post, this site focuses on men's sexuality. However, I also like to talk about the products that help me in my marriage. Whether she's doing it solo or with me, I have come to love the SVAKOM line of products. Here's a bit of information on one of their clit massagers, the Keri:

There are literally thousands of vibrators on the market, so it took me some time to do the research, read a lot of reviews, write to some companies, and then ultimately commit to spending the money on one. If you are reading this, then this is likely not your first rodeo when buying a vibe.

Let me talk a small bit about the unboxing, and then we’ll get to the usage and results of this awesome vibe. You can see from the ample pictures I’ve provided, that the Keri comes wrapped in opaque plastic covering. So, when you order your package, you don’t have to worry about any embarrassing accidents. After opening the package, you’ll notice a high quality, luxury style box. Right then was the moment I knew this was going to be a treat rather than a disappointment. If a company spends that much time designing the packaging, I can only imagine how much time they spent in production of the vibrator itself. Once you remove the outer packaging, you’ll find a lift-top box. Once opened, you will see an elegant, and I do mean elegant, piece of modern art. At first glance, it does not look like a vibrator in the traditional sense. The design is fluid and smooth. The silicone covering is 100% waterproof. If I had to sum it up in one word, classy.

You’ll also find enclosed (once you lift out the false bottom of the box) the USB charger and a sleek silky carrying case. Do not lose that charger. It’s not a typical USB charger, because the part that plugs into the vibe is a pinhole charger (not a micro-USB port). At first, I thought this was a design flaw, until I looked harder. See, the Keri is 100% waterproof. When you pull the charger out of the vibe, the pinhole is small enough that the surrounding silicone will seal it up. This could not be done with anything larger and while still maintaining the waterproof quality. Oh, and regarding chargers, the Keri comes packed with enough juice to use immediately.

So onto the use. My Wife is the primary user of this vibe, except during couple’s play when I use it on her. The Keri offers five levels of intensity and five different vibration modes. At the highest level of intensity, it competes very well with the Hitachi Magic Wand. The benefit with the Keri is that it is cordless, waterproof, offers targeted pressure, and it’s silky smooth. You won’t find those qualities in the Magic Wand. It’s also curved specifically to feel natural in your hand while providing maximum control over clitoral stimulation. Ultimately, it is designed for the clitoris, but I suppose a more daring person could insert it. For couples, the benefit comes with the simplicity of the design. Since it is only about the length of a hand and very lightweight, it is super easy to use during intercourse. If you’ve ever used a vibe during intercourse, you know that it is cumbersome and prone to causing pain during penile thrusting (slams against the pubic bone). The Keri seems like it was designed on-purpose for use during intercourse. The head of the vibe is thin enough that penis thrusting will not incur the vibrator jabbing that happens in missionary and similar positions.

Use your imagination. The vibrations are strong and focused enough to be used anywhere on the body. For solo play, you could incorporate a G-spot stimulator as well, and bring yourself to full-body orgasms. Overall, this has become a favorite of our bedroom toys. The gorgeous design, extremely powerful motor, easy clean-up, reasonable price, and portability make the SVAKOM Keri a must-have for your collection. I cannot recommend it highly enough.

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Bring Intimacy into All Positions

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Wednesday, August 3, 2016

So, we just got done reviewing the Helix Syn. If you've tried it, you're likely hooked on P-spot massage and milking. Well, I have great news -- you're only just beginning your journey.

See, Aneros (and other competing brands) have multiple toys. Every man has a different anatomy, so what works for one may not work for you. For me, once I graduated to "fuller" toys, I wanted something stronger, more intense. Enter the Aneros Progasm:

At first glance, it has an impressive design and contours. The whole device is made of an extremely hard and unforgiving plastic. Don't get the idea that this is cheap plastic -- it's not. You'll also notice the pronounced tabs on either side of the device. One is for the perineum, and the other is for the kundalini spot. If you're not sure what that is, click here.

Where the Progasm excels is how it sits on the prostate. The curving of the product is slightly varied from others of the same brand. In fact, all Aneros products have their own "personality." This one seemed to hit all of the right spots for me. There are no vibrations, like you would find in the Vice (which we will talk about later), and the idea is for your own contractions to do the work for you.

After a while, your automatic system will take over and help the Progasm quiver inside you (which will ultimately make you quiver outside). The hardness of the product is another high point. Whether you are using your own muscular contractions, or if you are playing with it manually a bit, the pressure on your prostate will be intense. It is NOT painful; it is intense. Those are two very different things. If something like this ever is painful, stop and consult an expert.

Where the Progasm falls short is also one of its strengths. So, you have to take the good with the bad. Since it is made of a very smooth plastic, once it is lubricated it has a tendency to slip out. I never had this problem while lying on my back or side. However, if I mounted my wife it was a bit awkward to keep it from popping out... which would totally ruin the mood.

Overall, the orgasm you will achieve is super strong. I get excited just thinking about using it again. Enjoy!

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The Aneros Prograsm - A Graduating Step from the Syn

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